Category Archives: Technology

Best of SMS Livedating: Cross Country Ripple Effect Edition

Does the text-connection transmit, too, rippling waves of possible sex across the nation, nay, even, the world? We offer the following evidence:
10:26pm PST/1:26am EST
not on date: and?
1:43am PST/4:43am EST
on date: he’s a good kisser!
not on date: nice. i’m having weird dreams about sex parties.
… the next day …
on date: sex party dreams? [...]

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Best of SMS Livedating: Three Ways of Texting

In today’s installment of “My Phone’s on Vibrate for You,” Sexerati offers this time-shifted tale of three lovers in three ways…
On date: Off to [location redacted] to see [name redacted]. In cab. He’s late. Late?
On other date: Late boys are rare. And I’m sitting here thinking I need a boy who [...]

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The Sexerati Guide to Unpersonals: Consumating & flickr

Unpersonals. You know them. You probably even have an account on one of them, complete with sassy photos, lots of comments, and a multipage friends list. And of course, you’d never, ever use that kind of site to meet someone. Or stalk someone. Right?
Of course right.
“The Sexerati Guide to Unpersonals” brings you this, the [...]

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What We Don’t digg About Sex (Week 2): Does digg need a Sex Section?

Week two of charting sexual intelligence at digg yields another piece of the Web sex media puzzle: that as we begin to think about sex in community and by way of social media, we need a shared vision of what we even mean by “thinking sex.”

When highly dugg stories on sex are so often like [...]

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Introducing the Bubble Hotties: Boys & Girls Hot Beyond Their Means

The bubble — (blogging about) it’s so hot right now.
We don’t judge if you haven’t been paying attention to the bubble, but you’ve been reaping its benefits. It’s okay, users. No, I’m sorry, content makers. We’ll still respect you even if the thing ends up bursting its unseemly tech juices in the [...]

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‘My Phone’s On Vibrate For You’: The Best of Livedating SMS

It happens to the best of us. Your phone is on vibrate, and…
Not on date: I hope you’re having a damn fine night and that’s why I’ve heard NOTHING.
On date: Nice. At a bar. I hope we fuck.
Not on date: Can I blog that as Best. Date. Check-in. Ever.
On [...]

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Anal Sex Preferred By Brooklyn Hipsters

This week’s New York magazine’s piece on how straight people are so totally into anal sex (again) is the most emailed story there so far this issue.
Though the CDC study cited doesn’t offer any hard numbers on female-insertive, male-receptive anal sex, anecdotally speaking, the sex smart folks interviewed report that the boys in Brooklyn are [...]

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What We Don’t digg About Sex

Finding good sex news on digg is a drag, with so much of it being tales of bad things done to women’s bodies, or just “sex” showing up in the description of wares both hard and soft (not the worst problem, but really), or Google AdWords masquerading as blog posts. See also: why are [...]

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Body Hacks: [rootlock@mulabandha] man comeharder

Don’t hate on Tantra just for its unfortunate aesthetics — or rather, the unfortunate aesthetics of some of the web designers of its Western devotees¹. As a technology of pleasure, Tantra has a lot to offer the determined orgasm engineer. Learning to modify one’s ‘unconscious’ physical responses is fundamental to both sex [...]

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Yoni B. Goode

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photo by jodigreen.

If, after reading on sacred cunt massage in the latest Scarlet…
The treatment would cost £40 and he reassured me I’d enjoy the experience and that it would help ease painful sex.
The session would take two hours and would begin with rituals to create a sacred environment with candles and music prior to the [...]

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