Sex educator and kink ambassador Midori posed the following in her blog:
What should a considerate gentleman-lover-about-town have for supplies around the bedroom and bathroom? Think of the best of the best lover who’s a ladies’ man or the fellow who’s single by design.
Condoms, lube, batteries, and fetching cleanup towels dominate the hundredish suggestions offered, but [...]
Crushed out, meaning, dear sweet fuck, has Spring sprung up so full upon us, with not just strapped-on sandals and heady notions of nonstop skin, but smart, smart ass inspiration in the form of well, what we’ve been reading between the dressing and the undressing:
Shake Well Before Use is Ariel Waldman’s daily compendium of [...]
As part of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s whistleblogstop book tour, Sexerati comes up for air on a Sunday to review her most recent erotica anthologies, He’s on Top and She’s on Top.
He’s on Top: Erotic Stories of Male Dominance and Female Submission appeared in my mailbox just in time for me to decide not to bring [...]
Let’s match it up quick, then: what we wrote with where it was written, and marvel at how fast sex moves, even across the most jetlagged of bodies:
How To (Jet Sex Edition): Share a Lover: Siem Reap, Cambodia (home to the temples at Angkor Wat)
Bubble Hotties: The Future Johns of America: NYC, baby, Manhattan.
The [...]
Generally speaking, we still heart Wired after thirteen and some-odd years, but what’s tired: yet another missive on the sexiness of geeks that neglects to mention sex’s own geeks: sexologists, sex educators, cultural historians of sex, sexual social scientists, and nerdy sexbloggers (just saying). True, geeks need to raise their sex flag high [...]
The things we do for sex, like, shack up in a stifling little internet cafe in Siem Reap, taking a Sexerati siesta.
As I’ve been traveling all week (and shooting video excessively, patience!), it’s been a bit of a missing week. Take my excuse, too, if, say, your lover ditched you with a Twitter [...]
Apropos of Susie Bright’s questioning of the overuse of NSFW…
NSFW is unmandated, unlegislated censorship — there’s no ballot to punch, no senator to harangue.
The great majority of NSFW warnings are the result of unconscious class bias, with the conceit of American ethnocentrism. It’s made a mockery of out of journalism and the First Amendment.
NSFW and [...]
Warning, the following may just be too much hotness, too much certainly to contain in just this one little bit of Firefox opened up on the sunniest, sweetest street in the Lower Haight today (of course I blog sex in public), too much hotness for San Francisco, too much hotness for us not to [...]
I’ve been heartcore a fan of Pink & White: Porn for Pussies since I first heard glimmerings from my former peep show co-workers about what they were up to that weekend: shooting hot, hot dyke porn for a hot, hot new director. Shine Houston sits down with us over email to let us know what’s [...]
If you haven’t heard, I’m here in NYC with Lux, posting rapid-fire from the Apple Store after scandalizing the Nokia flagship store employees. Lucky for us, the Apple folks are far more charitable.
Our Sex Social Marketing contest is up and running, with confirmation from guest judges Rachel Kramer Bussel and Audacia Ray. [...]